I Stopped Asking Others and Started Asking Myself

I Stopped Asking Others and Started Asking Myself - Here's What Changed

What I had learned may be different. What others learn differs too. Not everyone has the same dream. Not even the choices. But one question remains the same for everyone: how to learn? How to get better every day? Asking others gave me different options and suggestions. But, asking others didn't get me to know myself. What I want? What I think? I started asking myself questions over questions again and again.

I knew nobody was going to figure out my answers. Only and only I can. Whatever the doubt, whatever the problem; the only way to resolve every issue is us.

A random thought pulled me out from the chaos of me v/s me. A thought to express. A thought to word out every notion I had within myself. A thought to write every emotion, every experience and learnings. I agreed with my thought. I decided to write every notion in blogs from the very next day.

Contrary to that, on the very next day, I wasn't sure. I wasn't writing my blog. I was a bit nervous about what to write about. I was anxious about how I would be writing, since I hadn't written anything before. The day got over in hesitation. I tried figuring out something else. But while I was caught in a web of thoughts, a notion made me question myself. If I'd decided I had to express myself, why was I about to quit?

Quitting before I'd even started. The thought fueled my willpower to show up and try to figure out things on my own. The next day, I did show up thinking I'd see whatever happened next.

At the time, I thought it was just an incident. But it wasn't. It was my win over hesitation. It was my belief in myself. What I know is believing in ourselves only helps. If anybody doesn't believe in themselves, then how would others?

Things were messy. They are messy. And I know they will be. But, the only person who could wrap up the mess is me.

Facing ourselves helps ourselves get better. Choice matters but only our own.

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