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The Day I Stopped Overthinking and Started Understanding Myself

I stopped. I stopped thinking too many thoughts at a time. I stopped fearing judgment. I stopped fearing making mistakes. What I was yesterday, I am not today. Writing improved me, evolved me within a few days of expressing. Expressing me to myself. Expressing my voice through words. Expressing what moments taught me about being myself. With thousands of thoughts, I had lost myself. The day writing took a stand for me, the tables turned. Things started sorting themselves out simply, with no more confusion. Clarity followed when I started writing. Confusion disappeared when mistakes were acknowledged; when I accepted myself. Accepted what I am and what I could be. A hope to be the one I could be motivates me every new day. It motivates me not to skip what I started, introducing me to myself. When the messed-up notions cleared, curiosity and creativity knocked on my door. They pushed me to rethink my definitions. The definition of discipline and consistency I am trying to fol...
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Why Every Day Is a New Chance to Become a Better Version of Yourself

Definitely, it's true. Every day is a new start. It starts with new hope. With new motivation. With new consistency. With new thoughts. A bad yesterday doesn't define today or tomorrow. Each day is different, whether in experiences or flaws. The notions never match each other. That's how curiosity and creativity work for me. I know voicing out myself isn't easy. But when every moment is new, every mistake is different, it doesn't look difficult to express. New thoughts, just as they are, raw. A few days back, when blankness covered all my notions, it didn't feel good. But did it happen every day? No. The next day, I wasn't blank. I had my thoughts to express. The hazy hope became visible again. The hope to be consistent, to be disciplined. Despite numbness, I got something new to express and gave words a voice. Every day starts with a question. Is today better than yesterday? The question that gives clarity over confusion. The question that keeps...

The Excuse I Had to Stop Making to Finally Grow

No. Not anymore. Not a single one I need. No more excuses, no more options. No more "I will start tomorrow." No more flaws to be ignored. Options changed into necessity and decisions when excuses were avoided. Everything started falling into place when I accepted myself, ignoring thoughts that defended failures. With time, acceptance vanishes all excuses and their notions. I thought to write. I hid behind hesitation. I wrote blogs. I hid behind blankness. I tried improving myself. I hid behind flaws. At last, I decided to stop making excuses and grow. I never tried to force any of my thoughts to justify themselves with reasons that had no worth. Nor did I skip my streak, effort, or any day because of an excuse. I acknowledge them to ignore them. I acknowledge them so that I do not carry such notions into the future. When things don't go well, it's quite natural not to accept failure and to defend ourselves. But failure isn't the end. It's the start...

Why Hope Matters More Than Motivation

Definitely, it worked. No matter what the situation is, the hope to perform always helps me show up with whatever I have. A hope to be better someday. A hope to improve myself, to be aware of myself. It works as a motivation to carry forward what I started a few months back. To carry forward my experiences and evolve over time. For sure, every day isn't the same; but hope remains the same. A hope that tomorrow I would express much better than all days. What if tomorrow I don't make mistakes while writing out my voice? Such uncertain questions have made hope a certainty to grow. The desire to be better pushes efforts to their fullest. Everything starts with expectations, whether it's a small start, consistency, discipline building, or curiosity. These learnings are not only the result of efforts, but also the result of expectations. Expectations from myself, from my voice, from the words I voice out. The day I started writing blogs, I hoped to see myself being be...

Why It’s Never Too Late to Start Writing: The Truth About Progress and Timing

No. Never. It's never late. It's just that we understand it later. Writing taught me a beautiful lesson: to see my journey. A new perspective to see what I had missed, what I did early or late. The blog is not about the learning I am expressing; it's about the beautiful memories I have experienced while on this small ongoing writing journey. I didn't focus on myself much earlier. But when I tried writing about myself, the tables turned out differently. It not only changed my thoughts but also my questions. The question from self turned into questions within thoughts. The first few days felt like I had started writing about myself quite late. But learning doesn't have any time- anytime, anywhere. There is nothing like perfect timing for anything to start. And writing about self doesn't need any time to begin. The day I wrote about myself for the first time, I felt relaxed- relaxed, something I had voiced out. Relaxed- I had stepped over hesitation. Fo...

Why One Day Is Not Enough to Change Yourself: The Truth About Real Growth

No, it didn't. It can't. Anybody cannot be defined within one day. A day isn't enough to know ourselves better. It's not enough to improve. It's not enough to build self-confidence. It's not enough to evolve ourselves. A day can only be a part of the infinite days of the process- a process that defines us. It defines our thoughts, our notions, and what not. Every moment I experienced is part of the writing journey. A question to process is a doubt about the awareness it is giving. It's the doubt on the confidence which helps in showing up consistently. I couldn't define who defined me. Neither could I question, nor would I. It changes my days from hesitation to confidence. Without knowing anything, anybody can't be judged on their first interaction. I didn't fear judgment from people who read my single blog. But I seek their feedback. It's been a process I have been trying to follow for the past few days. A learning defines itself...

The Truth About Daily Writing Nobody Talks About

It's not easy. Not every day is easy. Every day starts with a challenge: what to write, how to write, and many more things. But it doesn't define quitting. Despite challenges, motivation carries me forward. I step forward in the direction of improvement. I can control what's in my hands, but thoughts and notions aren't in my control. They are free; some days they make me blank, unable to express, but they never let me stop showing up. A few hours of patience, and the numbness without notions turns into experiences I can express. What I felt before was wrong. I didn't know how difficult it is to write a word before voicing myself. A word to be voiced needs confidence and belief. Courage is needed to let go of hesitation and fear of judgment. For a thought to be voiced through words, I always think whatever is going to happen will happen. A pause in motivation, and the blog doesn't stop until it ends. Every day is a new start. A new notion to express. ...