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The Day I Agreed With Two Opposite Thoughts at Once

When understood, I agreed. Thoughts could be different, but they can't be hollow. When things started getting understood, I didn't get distracted by opposite views. Their existence matters more than negligence. Their existence feels true, and that confuses me less than before.

I wanted two different thoughts at the same time. If they are contrary, it doesn't matter; their presence makes me more vocal about my experiences and perspectives. Contradictions felt human, not confusing. Two opposite truths sit quietly in the same mind now.

A few days back, while reading my starting blogs, I found something to evolve on. Titles were different, but they added value in their own way. It was all about overthinking and clarity. I had written them as two separate things earlier, but today I feel them as companions.

The day I was juggling in my web of thoughts, I was trying to find out the meanings of my experiences. But without getting them revealed, I couldn't get the right one. Confusion disappeared when I stopped forcing clarity. While reading them now, I found myself more evolved in my learnings on the journey.

I noticed opposite emotions can exist together. Now, I want my confidence and hesitation on the same page. Contradictions didn't break me; they explained me to myself much better than anyone could. The balance between extraordinary opposites shows a path to evolve over time.

Emotions feel different, but when they are two sides of the same coin, I didn't question them. Now they exist naturally within me. I stopped silencing one thought for chasing the second one. Writing is taking me much closer to myself, more than I imagined.

Understanding became wider than certainty.


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