What Writing Is Teaching Me About Not Needing Closure for Every Thought?

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An ending isn’t a necessity, but enhancement certainly is. I recognise imperfect thoughts as my incomplete learnings, which will help me evolve later. The process I don't know, but I know where to stop to improve. Every thought, view, and opinion doesn't need closure; they could enhance anytime, anywhere. I feel happy when a story is incomplete. It makes me more curious to explore every possible outcome for it. Every possibility enlightens me with much more interesting views. Neither does it end, nor does it let knowledge end. On this journey, I started writing with small efforts to express. As I continued, those efforts got a direction, which later joined my discipline, belief, and confidence. That non-closure continuation helped me reduce my hesitation to express. At the end of every blog, I ask myself a question for improvement. It's not a closure but an entrance for enhancement. Messy thoughts help me to know each and every perspective of my experiences. It ...
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What Writing Is Teaching Me About Not Needing Immediate Answers?

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Finally, the battle between eagerness and calmness ends; both win and lose at the same time. Writing gave me a way to understand what the situation demands. Thoughts should be eager but not incomplete; they should be structured, not complicated. It could only be possible when we didn't expect a fast response from the brain.

Nowadays, writing eagerly with calm thoughts makes me understand myself much better. The day I started writing blogs, I learned how patience plays a significant role in life. Trying to get immediate answers had wandered me off the right track.

Urgency of thoughts is an option; it is not necessary to think immediately. Day by day, writing is making me aware of something which is hidden inside me. I wasn't aware of the magic of waiting; it was awaiting to be seen.

Everything demands time. A plant couldn't be a tree in the next few days; a baby couldn't be an adult in the next few months. Then why do we people demand answers as soon as possible from the brain? The way we nurture ourselves, the brain nurtures thoughts to be presented.

I do express myself daily, but my day ends with a question: was there something which could be learned through this blog? I didn't get answers instantly. After a few days, thoughts automatically click, and I express them without any hesitation.

I didn't write on the topic of trusting the process after a few days of starting. But I wrote it after almost one and a half months. The time period made me learn to trust whatever I am doing. I was seeing my improvement, watching myself becoming better day by day; therefore, believing in the process wasn't instant but long-term.

Waiting for answers tests my patience every time; I try to win every time.

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