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What Writing Is Teaching Me About Not Expecting Every Day to Be Meaningful?

Every day is not the same despite having twenty-four hours in common. Emotions couldn't be the same all the time, nor could thoughts be the same. Then why think every day would be meaningful? Passing days don't feel the same every time now; they carry their own plot and end with it.

It depends on me how I would extract something valuable from the day. If something unexpected is experienced, then it is definitely a productive day. Writing helps capture those experiences and document them for myself.


I don't allow expectations to define my effort. Maintaining the same efforts regularly while thinking for improvement is most meaningful to me. A day with low energy doesn't define its value, but a day filled with courageous endeavour carries significance for me.

Consistent effort is the most thrilling, exciting, and joyous thing which writing helps me do. It helps me explore myself a bit more every day. That feeling could only be sensed when I write daily without having any expectations for meaning.

Nothing could be learned instantly; that is why a day's worth could only be calculated when it unites with other days. I have experienced writing on low days, just like feeling blank on some days. It doesn't mean they didn't help me learn.

Days later, I understood what I thought was meaningless carries deep thoughts within it. It was simply helping my brain's creativity to work more smoothly, creating a vacant space for other thoughts.

A valuable experience is not made up of expectations, but of patience, effort, courage, belief, consistency, and even failures, which shape a meaningful experience. It helps the brain maintain a library of thoughts.

Expectations are exceptions to avoid.

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