What Writing Is Teaching Me About Not Needing Closure for Every Thought?

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An ending isn’t a necessity, but enhancement certainly is. I recognise imperfect thoughts as my incomplete learnings, which will help me evolve later. The process I don't know, but I know where to stop to improve. Every thought, view, and opinion doesn't need closure; they could enhance anytime, anywhere. I feel happy when a story is incomplete. It makes me more curious to explore every possible outcome for it. Every possibility enlightens me with much more interesting views. Neither does it end, nor does it let knowledge end. On this journey, I started writing with small efforts to express. As I continued, those efforts got a direction, which later joined my discipline, belief, and confidence. That non-closure continuation helped me reduce my hesitation to express. At the end of every blog, I ask myself a question for improvement. It's not a closure but an entrance for enhancement. Messy thoughts help me to know each and every perspective of my experiences. It ...
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What Writing Is Teaching Me About Personal Standards?

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Expectations hurt when not fulfilled. I had two choices: either fulfill them or just abandon them. Trying to write continuously is my effort toward their accomplishment. In all these days, I learned the effort part is on my side, so I am trying my best. But some days I feel I have to do way better than the previous day. I expect better from myself day by day.

I started writing with an aim to improve as much as I can. The reason was sufficient enough to raise my standards as days passed. I wrote casually for almost a week initially. But the expectations were not satisfied with writing casually. After two to three days, I started to share my experience not casually but punctiliously.

That gave me joy, but after a few days I was back to my expectations. That time, I decided to improve my grammatical errors, which I am still trying to do. When I tried to understand this whole scenario, I realised my expectations set new standards every few days. They are not letting me be comfortable with a single improvement.

Day by day, I crave to be better than the previous day. For me, it's like I have to write today better than yesterday, whether in terms of grammatical errors or choice of words or whatever. Whenever I set high standards, I don’t perform my best according to them, but surely I do better than the previous day. Days pass and that better matches the standard, after which I upgrade the bar for myself.

I upgrade the bar, but it comes from inside; it's silent. I didn’t raise it by seeing others. I strongly believe improvement happens when standards are raised silently.

After publishing, I reread my former blogs to enhance the next ones. It's not because of self-doubt, but due to self-awareness to acknowledge and accept mistakes to improve next time. I criticise myself before anyone else, which helps me take external criticism as feedback.

I started with an aim to improve myself. That's only possible when I compete with myself instead of others. Setting standards again and again, not stopping after a single improvement, is helping me do it. I am trying to write every blog better than the previous one, either a little or much, I don’t know, but it’s helping me to show up daily.

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