What Writing Is Teaching Me About Not Needing Closure for Every Thought?

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An ending isn’t a necessity, but enhancement certainly is. I recognise imperfect thoughts as my incomplete learnings, which will help me evolve later. The process I don't know, but I know where to stop to improve. Every thought, view, and opinion doesn't need closure; they could enhance anytime, anywhere. I feel happy when a story is incomplete. It makes me more curious to explore every possible outcome for it. Every possibility enlightens me with much more interesting views. Neither does it end, nor does it let knowledge end. On this journey, I started writing with small efforts to express. As I continued, those efforts got a direction, which later joined my discipline, belief, and confidence. That non-closure continuation helped me reduce my hesitation to express. At the end of every blog, I ask myself a question for improvement. It's not a closure but an entrance for enhancement. Messy thoughts help me to know each and every perspective of my experiences. It ...
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What Writing Is Teaching Me About Identity?

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One question, different answer. Damn! It didn't happen before with me. I am amazed seeing this improvement in me. I, who was juggling in my thoughts and emotions once, am now trying to understand them. I literally feel someone has just clicked the reset button of my brain. What actually I am talking about is something which everyone has; their own identity.
Formerly, I had written about my perspective and experiences which I had gained through writing blogs. But I didn't write what I actually was before writing and what I am now. I am still trying my best to change myself while keeping my authenticity.

Writing out my voice has shaped my words, but the change didn't stop there. The words which carry the weight of my voice affect my behaviour. Words are not only making up my blogs but are defining my improved behaviour. Before writing blogs, I used to think what writing has to be done is quite easy.

But the passing of days has made me aware that it's easy to say but difficult to do. I wasn't even much aware of the selection of words needed to complete the blog, but now I am trying my best to choose the right ones. I wasn't honest enough to accept my mistakes in front of anyone, but now I try to acknowledge them as soon as possible. When I started writing, I wasn't aware what to write. Now I know what I could share.

I wrote about consistency and discipline in blogs. But it doesn't stop only at blogs; they are part of my daily life. My small actions which I shared were part of my daily life. Isn't it interesting? For you, maybe not, but for me definitely yes.

Now my opinions matters, which were not even present before. Being the one with opinions gives me confidence to write without hesitation. It's not like I changed myself completely. But it's like I accepted my flaws, improved them, and learned valuable things through writing. Just learning good to be good enough as a human being.

Writing has not only benefited me as a skill but acted as a mirror which has reflected my flaws to correct. It has made me someone who doesn't require any filter. Being raw, being honest is the best identity I carry now.

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