What Writing Is Teaching Me About Delayed Gratification?

No one can expect the unexpected. I was not aware of this till I started writing my experiences. All I knew was that we could expect whatever is based on our work or preparations. But these days I learned one more important thing related to it; i.e., satisfaction. I felt it very lately or had not experienced much of it.

I started writing blogs with the myth that writing would be easy. Well, I was wrong; it is very difficult and requires a lot of creativity. But that myth I started with made me believe that efforts would give instant results. The bubble burst when I published blogs continuously for a week.

I got frustrated after seeing negligible response. But I thought calmly about this. I explained the situation to myself with the scenario of exams. Whenever we have exams, do our results come early? No, they don’t. This made me think to forget about the response and continue writing.

However, at that time, patience was negligible within me. But frustration was useless at that time, and also satisfaction and frustration are enemies of each other. So I started writing calmly without any craving for response. I was happy after some days when I saw a little bit of growth.

I was improving my grammatical errors. It gave me joy but not satisfaction, because both are very different. You could be happy but not satisfied. But when you are satisfied, joy would accompany it.

I enjoy writing whatever I feel is right and share it. I read my former blogs just to avoid mistakes while writing further blogs. It gives me joy but not satisfaction. Just like for all, applause gives me satisfaction. But writing without it is a real task which I am trying to do.

I am trying to improve day by day, hoping for the best response.

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