What Writing Is Teaching Me to Take Responsibility for My Own Life?

Blaming others would not work. It’s my work; I have to do it. Whether it goes right or wrong, nothing else matters. The thing that matters is that I have to do it, there is nobody to do it on my behalf. This is the mentality that has been developing in me during these days. It is very obvious to ourselves that there is nobody responsible for our progress or failure. It’s just our own responsibility to do something for progress instead of failing by doing nothing.

When I started writing, it felt like heading towards taking my own responsibility. Before that, I was just blaming others for my problems and troubles. That mess was just the result of not taking my own responsibility. Instead, I was fully dependent on others to do my work. Lately, I have realised that it was no one’s fault except mine. If it was my work, then it was obvious that it had to be done by me. This was completely my fault.

Now the tables have turned. I understood that passengers are responsible for their own luggage. The more you focus on yourself, the more you will progress. I have stopped blaming others for my mess. Accepting that and working upon solutions for the mess is a kind of thinking that has been developing. Accepting mistakes makes me accountable to myself, and that helps me not repeat the same mistakes.

Almost a month is going to finish since I started writing blogs. I learned many things that made me responsible for my own actions. This has been possible because of the self-reflection I got after expressing myself in blogs. I didn’t make excuses not to write, and I didn’t fool myself by living unproductively. In fact, it teaches me something out of the box every second I spend while expressing myself honestly in blogs.

Excuses trouble us all. Consistent writing teaches me to catch the excuses that I was giving myself, which were creating trouble before. When I understood that excuses were just making me unproductive day by day, I decided on zero excuses for myself. This is building self-discipline. Expressing confidently without any fear is the result of that self-confidence.

I have realised lately that growth happens when accepting faults is not a one-day task, but a regular habit. Either it will be slow or fast, but it will end up helping you succeed.

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