What Writing Is Teaching Me About Not Needing Closure for Every Thought?

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An ending isn’t a necessity, but enhancement certainly is. I recognise imperfect thoughts as my incomplete learnings, which will help me evolve later. The process I don't know, but I know where to stop to improve. Every thought, view, and opinion doesn't need closure; they could enhance anytime, anywhere. I feel happy when a story is incomplete. It makes me more curious to explore every possible outcome for it. Every possibility enlightens me with much more interesting views. Neither does it end, nor does it let knowledge end. On this journey, I started writing with small efforts to express. As I continued, those efforts got a direction, which later joined my discipline, belief, and confidence. That non-closure continuation helped me reduce my hesitation to express. At the end of every blog, I ask myself a question for improvement. It's not a closure but an entrance for enhancement. Messy thoughts help me to know each and every perspective of my experiences. It ...
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What Writing Is Teaching Me About Making Peace With Slow Growth?

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Everything was going smoothly, but I was unable to see growth. Suddenly, one day, I started questioning my path. Am I going right? was the exact question I was asking myself. It was not self-doubt, but a self-talk to get clarity about the efforts I had put into writing. I was troubling myself and disturbing my mental peace in this situation. It was not a new thing for me to trouble myself and overthink a lot about mishappenings or anything that gives me stress.


Silence is the best tool to get answers to your questions. I used the same to get an answer to whether I was going right or not. The problem lay in comparison. I was troubling myself because I was comparing myself to others instead of my old self. I concluded that day to not compare myself with others, but with myself only. I decided that I would compare my growth with my former self.

When this mentality changed, my growth became visible to me. I noticed that I was not doing anything productive in the past, but now guess what? I had changed myself to do something valuable in my life. I had started writing blogs from the day I decided to change. I was completely changed from a lazy fellow who loved to enjoy doing nothing. I am learning new, out-of-the-box things every day that I express through blogs. Slow growth was there, which I was not seeing earlier.

Relief is the best feeling in the world. I felt it after thinking about my growth; a sudden happiness which brought peace to me. Now every question about growth feels invalid to me. The day I stopped comparing myself to others gave me peace and patience. Patience to wait for others to see my growth. I am committing mistakes, I am working upon them, and I am trying to improve in my next blogs.

I have learned in these days about the importance of consistency in life. The day I started writing blogs was the day I gave my small effort to do something productive. Expressing myself to you guys about my day-to-day learning continuously is the result of that consistency. This shows me growth as compared to my older versions. I know growth is not visible to us in the initial days, but consistent efforts make it visible to all.

Small things matter to me. For a plant to become a strong tree that stands tall, roots should be strong. Slow growth is making my roots strong through discipline, consistency, starting without hesitation, self-belief, confidence, and much more. All this is possible because of no chaos and complete peace. The mental clarity I got motivates me to continue writing.

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