How Writing Is Teaching Me to Observe Instead of Judge?

Judging someone without thinking for anything was making me commit mistakes. The day I started to observe and think about things, everything changed suddenly. I was able to see two perspectives, i.e., wrong and right. Focusing on right makes me a good decision-maker than before. Sudden judgement could result in wrong decisions. Thinking for some time is better than guilt after wrong judgement.

I used to just analyse things once and make a sudden decision about things before. Now that’s something which evolved over time. Giving space to thoughts gives me better decisions to make. A frustrated man could talk rudely to anybody. In return, if we raise our voice to answer, then where is the difference? Observing them and answering patiently and calmly could help in this situation. It would help you recognise their true nature.

As I said in my former blogs many times, I am learning something new every day. But from where I am learning is the important part of this blog. When I started expressing my views in blogs consistently for a few days, I observed one thing after almost seven days; the grammatical errors I was making were reducing. I was improving day by day. I came to know this after consistently observing my blogs. A sudden judgement that I could write without error was a myth for me from that day.

People judge everything whether it’s a place, people, their activity, or anything that’s not according to them. There are only some who observe before coming to any decision. Ever thought why we should observe before making our decision? To know each and everyone’s perspective. We could have different thoughts about the same thing, but observing helps us conclude with a single thought.

Writing blogs is my way of sharing my observations with all readers. I write, then I erase, then I write till I find the best thought for the topic. All this is possible because I observe the best suitable thoughts for the topic, not sudden random ones.

Everyone would have different opinions on my writing. Maybe I would be lacking somewhere that would shape your judgement. But in reality, I am the one who is still learning, still trying my best to improve. All I do is observe and judge myself to improve in the next blogs.

Judging suddenly had only created mess and noise for me, but observation has given me clarity to decide better.

Observe and think before judging and reacting.

Observe and give your judgement in the comments.

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