What Writing Is Teaching Me About Not Needing Closure for Every Thought?

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An ending isn’t a necessity, but enhancement certainly is. I recognise imperfect thoughts as my incomplete learnings, which will help me evolve later. The process I don't know, but I know where to stop to improve. Every thought, view, and opinion doesn't need closure; they could enhance anytime, anywhere. I feel happy when a story is incomplete. It makes me more curious to explore every possible outcome for it. Every possibility enlightens me with much more interesting views. Neither does it end, nor does it let knowledge end. On this journey, I started writing with small efforts to express. As I continued, those efforts got a direction, which later joined my discipline, belief, and confidence. That non-closure continuation helped me reduce my hesitation to express. At the end of every blog, I ask myself a question for improvement. It's not a closure but an entrance for enhancement. Messy thoughts help me to know each and every perspective of my experiences. It ...
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How Daily Writing Is Teaching Me to Take Actions Without Confidence?

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Hesitation, nervousness—the problems I was dealing with even before writing blogs. To start writing was never easy for me. These problems were all due to the lack of self-belief, confidence, or trust. I believe they all are the qualities an individual requires to do something extraordinary. Before, I was lacking in these qualities, but now I am slowly building them. If you want to have these qualities, you must be honest and self-aware with yourself. This all had happened due to the action I took days before.

The action is proving to be the best one which I took without confidence, with a lot of overthinking and hesitation within myself. I was having a fear of publishing my blog on the very first day. Some sort of anxiety about what would happen due to the blog being published. Today, when I am writing this blog, I would say it was all due to the zone I made around myself. The zone which was making me safe and comfortable. The day I took the initiative to start writing blogs was the day I stepped out of my comfort zone. When that zone got broken down, I was facing some hesitation, as I told before. But that also reduced because of this consistency of expressing.

Confidence comes when you start. I was not having it at the start of expressing my thoughts with all you guys. Slowly, as the days passed, the confidence started to get reflected in my writing. All the clarity of writing—what and how—comes from that self-confidence. There are sometimes I feel lacking it, but I express my views no matter what. That seems to look very small, but it is a big thing for me and for sure for some of you guys.

Nowadays also, whenever I lack confidence while writing on any topic, the best part is I reflect whatever I feel at that time. I used examples in my previous blogs. That was something I wrote non-confidently, but they all were best suited with the topics I wrote. Then I gave some more examples in a few of my previous blogs. I write daily, I make some mistakes. Correcting those mistakes and not following them again are the main keys which are giving roots to develop confidence. This had only been possible because of the decision I took without doubting myself.

I always express the importance of initiatives for achieving goals. Always remember one thing: zero comes at the start, but infinity is not the end. Same way, confidence will come only after the start.

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